October 20, 2014
It is a typical day for me in mid-October and I am cherishing my time at home as a mom. Emmanuel gives me lots of joy. It enjoy just watching him wiggle and exercise his legs after feeding. He is so observant listening to bird calls and the nighttime insects and seems to always keep tabs on where his Mommy is. He absolutely loves to eat and we are amazed at how much he has grown in just 8 weeks! As of this week he has officially doubled his birthweight and grown 2.5inches. His head is even larger. I have never seen anything like it! He seems to need less sleepwhich results in a baby that goes on sleeping sprees every few days. This too will pass as he gets older. We are so thankful that he is healthy and growing! I can't wait until he starts talking to us.
Warren and I took a big trip to Kinshasa two weeks ago to apply for Emmanuel's proof of birth, passport, and Congolese VISA. This was a BIG trip for a little guy but we really needed to start the process in order to have the needed documents to travel back to the USA for Christmas. We were successful and hope to receive everything in the next couple of weeks. We had the pleasure of staying with a Congolese family, the Mobulas.
We found that everyone we met was shocked to see such a young infant in public and everyone had comments on his age and parenting advice. We heard: "he's too young to travel, you should cover him much more (nevermind that it is 100 degrees outside), you should hold him like this, etc.....". It's funny because culturally Americans would never do this and see it as an encroachment on our personal lives. Congolese on the other hand have plenty of advice on parenting that they will share with you.
Our house is turning into a small farmette. So far we have received 4 chickens (make that 5, I just received another while writing this) and a goat as gifts for Emmanuel's birth. It is very traditional to give chickens to families of new babies. People say that the women give nutrients to her newborn through breastmilk for a week after eating chicken. I'm not sure, but there is probably a gram of truth in it. Ah yes, we are definitely living village life at its' best. Several of our Congolese friends have recently had babies, so they have been stopping by to visit with their little ones. It's good to know that our little guy will have lots of friends.
|Richard and Mapenzi with Gabriella|
|Florence and baby Favordi|
A new, baby African grey parrot named Jorp has joined our household. He was delivered to our house the day Emmanuel was born. Two babies joined our family at the same time. Jorp and Emmanuel will grow up together...African greys have the same lifespan as humans! Over the last 8 weeks Jorp has lost his downy and grown beautiful flight feathers! He can literally fly down the hallway the
length of the house and into one of the rooms, landing on an extended hand. In the morning if I can't find which curtain rod he is perched on I just call his name and he chirps back at me.
|A little boy and his parrot|
We are looking forward to some visiting medical staff these next two months. Dr. Bartholomew, a maxillofacial surgeon, and his wife Huyen who is a family practice doctor. He is hoping to do some cleft lip and facial tumor cases. Also wewelcome Dr.Ron Johanssen, cardiologist from the University of Minnesota, and his lovely wife a cardiac nurse. We have an abundance of cardiac problems from hypertension to inherited cardiac conditions to valvular problems due to rheumatic heart disease. We are looking forward to having our friends here with us. Then in no time we are back to the USA and Switzerland in December/January to see family. We know this time will just fly by, but we will cherish the days to visit and opportunity to introduce Emmanuel to everyone.
I thought you might enjoy some of these photos of typical life in the village of Nyankunde, thanks toElise Cegielski (intern with Samaritan's Purse). She visited our village this last week to capture some of the maternal-child health work going on and to learn more about our work at the hospital. I think you'll agree that she captures the vibrant colors of the women's clothing and a bit oftheir daily lives. The women love participating in care group activities which they consider as their "school." Women work very hard in this culture from child rearing to cooking, fetching water, working in the fields. Life can be rather serious which is captured in many of their facial expressions.
|Life is a bit serious for these children|
Thank you for so many of your prayers for my health (Lindsey) and our adjustment as a couple to life with a newborn.
Lindsey & Warren & Emmanuel